Our oldest turned 16 in May and was able to get his driver's permit. In our state, we have Graduated Driver's Licensing. This is a three-step process: 1)Learner's permit - allows driving only with a fully licensed driver 2)Intermediate license - allows unsupervised driving but with restrictions related to driving at night and teenage passengers 3)Full
licensure.
I have to admit, the thought of my child operating a vehicle out there on the road stresses me out. Since he is still in the learner's permit phase, we've been taking it pretty slow. If I'm going out to run errands close to home, I'll let him drive (as long as our other kids aren't with us). And, on several evenings, we've went out just to take a drive through town so he could get some more practice. He still has a long way to go, but, he is not doing a bad job so far. In a couple months, we are going to let him take a few hours of a professional driver's training course; in addition to helping him improve his driving, it will also give us a discount on his auto insurance.
Many of his friends are new drivers as well. Some already have their intermediate licenses. So, he is beginning to want to go out and ride places with these friends. More stress for me. To be honest, it scares me to death to let him go. But, that is part of being a parent and having your kids grow up - you have to let them go sometimes. We give him rules to follow: he has to ALWAYS wear a
seat belt, he has to tell us exactly where he is going/who is going, we must always be able to reach him on his cell phone (no cell phone talking or texting if he is the driver), and he cannot be in a car with a bunch of kids. Also, he is never to ride with someone who has been drinking. We've assured him that he can call us anytime, from anywhere, and we will pick him up, no questions asked, if it keeps him from riding with someone who has had alcohol. From there, we just have to trust that he will be smart and safe.
Here are some statistics about teen driving from the National Safety Council:*Every day – more than 10 young drivers age 15-20 are killed in crashes and another 745 are injured.
*About 25% of crashes killing young drivers involve alcohol.
*39% of young male drivers and 26% of young female drivers were speeding at the time of their fatal crash.
*Although young drivers only represent 6% of all licensed drivers, they are the drivers in 16% of all traffic crashes.
*Young drivers are involved in fatal traffic crashes at over twice the rate as the rest of the population.
*Traffic crashes are the #1 cause of death among young adults.
*Teenagers driving at night with passengers are 4-5 more times likely to crash than when driving alone during the day.
If you want to read more about teen driving, here are some additional links:
Allstate - Teen DrivingTeendriving.comSafe Teen Driving ClubWhat about you? Do you have a teen driver? Or, if you've already been through this, how did you handle it? Does it ever get any easier when they go out in a car? I would love to hear your thoughts....